Mastering our hardships

Mastering our hardships

“A happy life consists not in the absence, but in the mastery of hardships.” ~Helen Keller

Life is consistently more rewarding for me when I focus on mastering the hardships life brings my way rather than wishing those hardships didn’t exist and feeling sorry for myself that they do.

What are you doing right now to master the hardships life has brought your way?

 

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The value of rest

The value of rest

“Most of the things we need to be most fully alive never come in busyness. They grow in rest.” ~Mark Buchanan

When I find myself needing healing, my innate tendency is to keep myself busy by working harder and harder. Inevitably, that approach ultimately backfires. All my work and busyness keep me away from the things that bring me most alive and slow my healing. It’s only when I allow myself to rest and nurture those things that bring to life that I move toward actual healing.

 

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Slow healing

Slow healing

“In real time, healing feels too slow to count as legitimate growth.” ~Katherine Morgan Schafler

Just because you can’t see your healing or growth happening, doesn’t mean it isn’t there. In our fast-paced, instant gratification world, it’s hard to be patient with the slow growth of healing that more closely resembles the quiet incremental growth of a tree than the flashy overnight transformation we long for.
 
If you keep doing the work, though, the healing will come in its own time. Be patient with yourself and with the process.

 

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