“Everything that kindness touches relaxes into its true nature.” ~Pamela Wilson
Kindness is a powerful gift that lets each of us relax into who we really are when we are touched by it. Offer kindness whenever you can to others and to yourself. You might be surprised at just how much power it has to create positive change!
“Care about what others think and you will always be their prisoner.” ~Lao Tzu
I used to think that caring about another person meant that I had to care about what they thought of me, but I’ve learned over time that I can actually care about another person better when I am not caught up in trying to edit who I am to manipulate their opinion of me. Setting them free to think whatever they think sets me free to be true to who I actually am.
“We evolve at the rate of the tribe we’re plugged into.” ~Caroline Myss
Who is in the tribe that you are plugged into? Are they growing and evolving the way you want to grow and evolve in your own life? Who you choose to spend your time with matters. Choose wisely.
“All I know is that my life is better when I assume people are doing their best.” ~Brené Brown
It’s so easy to assume the worst of others, and the self-righteous anger in that moment can be an addicting high. But life is so much better when we assume that others are doing their best and move toward compassion instead when we see that they don’t have the resources to do better.
“We are never so disposed to quarrel with others as when we are dissatisfied with ourselves.” ~William Hazlitt
It’s so easy to project our dissatisfaction with ourselves outward onto others. It feels easier than dealing with our issues with ourselves, but it can do so much damage to our relationships that create more work for us to mend.
What would happen if the next time you are feeling inclined to quarrel with those around you, you stopped to consider where you are dissatisfied with yourself instead of starting that argument with them?
What might that do for your own growth and for peace in your relationships and the world around you?