The story you tell yourself about the events in your life creates your reality.
Do you tell yourself a story that casts you as the perennial victim? Or do you tell a story of temporary setbacks that you have overcome time and again as a victor?
Do you tell a story about your skill, perseverance, and hard work creating your success? Or do you attribute your successful moments to pure luck?
The same events can be the basis for very different stories, and those different stories will produce very different experiences of life.
Are you telling yourself the story the way you want it to be? If not, how can you change your story?